Can you really love one person for life? YES.

Does the universe provide only one life partner per person? NO.

If that was the case the world would be a very sad place to live in.

If you get divorced does that mean you made a mistake?

Possible but in my view it just means that the person was right for you at the time you made the commitment, that is if you truly believed they were the one, and that your life experiences have somehow led to you outgrowing each other.

In the case of abuse there are more complex laws at play and this philosophy is too simply. In the case of outright dishonesty such as cheating, you simply need to catch a wake up call and examine the foundation of your relationship if you are so inclined or simply cut the sonofabitch off dead.
Here my assumptions in life:

1. All your life experiences make up who you are. Every single contact with things, people, good or bad make up who you are at any given moment.
2. As a person you change as you mature or experience various things. You pick or drop new hobbies, interests, mannerism, etc
3. It is impossible to be the same person you were at 18 at 40
4. You choose a life partner on the basis of values, common interests , how they make you feel and view life
5. You choose a lover on the basis of sexual attraction
6. You can learn to be attracted to your life partner but it’s a bitch to build a life time relationship on sex alone.

Right all of the above clearly indicate that the universe should theoretically be able to provide us with more than one life partner in our lifetime.

If this is the case I sure wish it does provide one for poor Lucas Radebe who lost his wife to cancer. I was very moved when I heard his tribute to his dead wife. This man cannot go through life without healing and being able experience love again.

Please God, help him heal.